This morning, while driving to work, I listened to Radio Val 202. The announcer shared with listeners the finding that for the past 10 years, the phrase “I don’t have time” has been the most common excuse people use
Is it true that we don’t have time?
Is it perhaps true that this is just a cliché excuse?
Or maybe there is some other reason to say this magical phrase “I don’t have time” to a fellow human being?
Of course, I immediately began to wonder how often I use this “I don’t have time” excuse. In my mind I walked through the past few days, then weeks and then months ... and of course I found quite a few moments or. events where I used this. The next stage of asking oneself was whether these were just excuses. Of all the ones, I found that I really used this famous phrase as an excuse a few times. He followed in astonishment ... OK, why? Um ... yeah why ... of course ... it immediately occurred to me. Because I couldn’t and I was too kind and looking for a way to tell the man that I just can’t. But I used "I don't have time" and of course the man understood immediately and I was saved from all the torment :)
OK. What about the rest of the part when there were no excuses? What was that? Was it perhaps a cliché sentence? You know the one where we meet an acquaintance and we don't know what to tell her, but we say, "How are you?" and the person replies without this necessarily being true: "Okay, thank you. What about you?" and we answer, "Okay, thank you." Then we break up and go our separate ways. So, was there such a cliché “I don’t have time” for me? Oops ... I was surprised to find that I apparently got rid of this over the years. Super !!! At least that. So let's move on. What about all the other “I don’t have time” I’ve used? What was that? I look back at events and situations and quickly realize that I am really a very busy person, that I have a lot of activities, obligations and that there are really so many obligations that I can not do everything that people offer me, ask me or. they are looking for my attention.
Do I have to feel bad because I don't have time?
My dear ones, we live in a time when we have a lot of opportunities at our disposal. Boredom is already a real treasure and rarity. The time we have at our disposal is right to use it the way we want and no longer the way others dictate that we should.
So why would I feel bad for telling someone I don’t have time?
What will I gain from this when I e.g. listening to the same problems of a close person who has no intention of changing things or if I look at that pointless fillm?
What if we all have the free will to choose that event and that man with whom we feel comfortable?
What if there’s really nothing wrong if friendly paths diverge after a while?
We are not bad people if we do not choose something! Bad people don’t exist.
Stop worrying if you fail to accomplish something. Also, don’t bother if you have to turn someone down, tell them in your face that you don’t have time (when you really don’t have it that day, week, or month). Be honest and do what is your truth then. You don’t have to look for excuses.
What if you do more in a relationship with someone, if you’re honest and say you don’t want to watch that movie, but would rather go for a walk? Or that you would rather spend a free afternoon just for a book? Or whatever else you want and you’re afraid to say that other people wouldn’t judge you for not being a good person if you don’t please him or her
Realize that you are the best possible version of yourself at all times!
Start taking care of yourself and your needs. Look around you and dedicate your precious time to people who want your company and with whom you have a nice time. Make your day wonderful and smiling! Just every day
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Before the mentoring program, I felt very heavy, I had difficulty moving my legs and walking, my lower back hurt. I had a feeling like I was moving a 100kg heavy leg with each step. Pain in my knees and hips accompanied me throughout. Non stop… through! During Maša's mentoring program, I first felt a lot of relaxation in my legs, knees especially in my left knee, where I had major problems. It felt like I was in a medieval armor. Now I can finally move easily. My shoulders are flexible, my arms free and I walk like a young girl. I also wiggle my hips as if dancing. We humans are not even aware that there is a way to solve our problems. We don’t know how to help ourselves or we don’t find the right path and way to solve things. We live life in the mind that some pain belongs to us and that we must live it that way. In fact, this is not the case.
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I met Maša at one of the business associations. The very first contact was very interesting to me, because Maša radiated such warm energy and was different from all the other entrepreneurs in that circle. I constantly followed her on her social networks and used her suggestions, her sayings and her suggestions several times. One day at the company, I got to the point where there was no more progress with employees. I have not found the right key to solve this challenge. It came with the intention of meeting Maša again at one of the business meetings, where she attracted me with her address. I decided to try her mentoring program myself and found it to be really great. However, the solution to my problem was not only with me, so I had to solve this matter with my colleagues as well. So I also invited co-workers to her therapy. We now have a much better business, as with the help of Maša’s sayings, therapies, advice, and her mentoring program, me and co-workers have resolved certain barriers, certain fears, and certain limitations that have limited us in our company’s performance. So for all entrepreneurs who can currently see themselves in a situation like me, in a situation where they do not see progress, when they do not know what to do… only one mentoring program with Maša Plaznik at Ray of happiness and also your company will shine with sunshine.
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